Dear,Fat girls, Keep being happy.


“There’s one blessing only, the source and cornerstone of beatitude — confidence in self” – Seneca the Younger

By,Lakira Mitchum

I was meant to bring the Bang, bang I guess. I tend to joke at myself about my thighs, as I look in the mirror naked I can’t help but, to notice my wide hips;I was once shamed for being the chubby in elementary school, it seems that body fat has given me something to fall back on. Come on guys,let me be fat and love myself is it wrong to actually do that? Am I really as fat as, I think or is it society that tells me I’m miss piggy. I remember my sister telling me she saw  nothing but, legs and thighs and I saw nothing but health and a strange glow that screamed,” hug me”. There is something sacred about my body and I think it’s beautiful don’t tell me to loose weight I will just give you a sinister glare of disapproval.d148b6eaeb66546bdfa45cd50400c7f8

Call me a narcissist but, I love my body!Self confidence is so particular and powerful in the bedroom on the street as well as in the office, let’s admit it we are meant to have curves.We are meant to be healthy and happy  but, never meant to starve, that’s crazy talk but, let’s go over the numbers and do some research shall we?Anorexia! Oh my God it’s hard to believe women and men are literally killing themselves over weight loss,Body fat is a natural thing to have, and we need it so well, in case we force to survive without food those lipid fat cells will begin to burn for us, helping survive with nutrients we have left over. Human are little  like camels need to store our goodies for latter to help us prosper especially in heat.There is healthy and bad fat well I’m pretty sure you can tell which one matter the most,healthy fat can become muscle and bad fat well is just fat tissue that weighs us down.Fat is wonderful really and if you are looking for fertility, and actually nice births fat is your friend, babies love fat! So don’t feel guilty if you eat like a horse during your pregnancy it’s a gift from the Goddess.Women that are Anorexic are more likely to have terrible pregnancies and less fertility rate, not only that but they are more likely to feel anxious insecure and ugly even with a bikini on those ribs are not cute at all.a83097c44e930ebbcc88347c977725d7

I think women that naturally skinny are beautiful if you want my opinion, but being obsessed but ,keeping that image can become stressful for anyone, our bodies were meant to change and scientifically woman were meant to have more body fat, and physiologically women  with a normal body fat are actually more likely to be more happy and have a better sex life as well.Anorexic models,well as I talk about this subject I do not was to seem cruel at all but reasonable about this issue.The modern  modeling industry seems to dehumanize women so much to the point even teenage that 90 pounds are calling themselves fat, honestly it extremely stupid and demeaning.There are an estimate of 200,000 diagnosed a year in the united  states and counting, we are a bless country with food and mostly clean water why the hell is this happening, are we just wasting food that a starving human could enjoy.



Encouraging anorexia is extremely sadistic and I have to say if hollywood actresses and models don’t see it by now God help them! this is an serious issue.Anorexia nervosa is a disorder that has the worst, and highest death rate in the world out of all disorders, and the typical age is from 15 to 24 years of age.All of this weight loss obsession is overwhelming what happened to encouraging women to love themselves and men as well.There are more people dying from Anorexia than obesity which is surprising to me and this is actually all caused by distorted body image this disorder can be treated with several things;  cognitive behavioral therapy being one of them, medications such as prescribed by an physician Olanzapine, which supports mental state of being, as well as referrals to nutritionists.


The power of plus size modeling: I do not enjoy calling it plus size modeling I prefer healthy modeling, other than obese models which is no better that anorexia but big girls need clothes to, so hey!I am going to brag about how sexy these women are, they are beautiful and confident   and they get hell from judgmental insecure pricks all the time.These women inspire me, I get called fat by my anorexic enemies ,I rarely get sick, I have better sex and well to admit I actually just have large bones meaning I have to eat more.I have to say body differences are wonderful! Believe it or men do complain about the bony factor of hitting the surface of a woman’s rectum repeatedly during sex, causing penile pain. I support curvy, healthy sexy women and I think everyone deserve to be healthy and happy, and the world should know boundaries as to what is beauty, beauty is self sustaining stress free confidence.aae3b783cf840caaeeb8862102614ad2.jpg

Wonderful quotes to remember:

“You are imperfect, permanently and inevitably flawed. And you are beautiful.”

Amy Bloom

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetic ally herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”

Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience


“Confidence is key,If I gave in to every stupid insult they threw at me I’d be brain dead.”-Lakira Mitchum

Information resources:

A Perfect 14 | Documentary Film About Plus-Size Models


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